Attended funerals in Ruislip

An attended funeral is a full funeral service with family and friends there. Our funeral directors in Ruislip will help you arrange it, and be with you at every stage.

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Henry Paul Funeral Directors, Ruislip

We are located on the corner of Shenley Avenue and Victoria Road in Ruislip Manor.

What an attended funeral costs in Ruislip

This is what an attended funeral costs at our Ruislip funeral director, including the fees we estimate you will pay to other organisations.

Attended funeral

Our services
£3,645
  • A Basic Coffin, or choose any other and pay only the difference
  • A traditional hearse
  • Care in our first class facilities
Estimated third-party costs
£914
  • Crematoria fees
  • A celebrant or minister to lead the ceremony
Estimated total
£4,559

The final price depends on the choices you make. Your funeral director will talk you through all of them.

Add a personal touch

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Coffins and caskets

Choose from a range of materials and designs – simple and understated through to ornate or colourful.

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Urns and keepsakes

Keep them close with an urn, scatter tube, garden memorial or piece of memorial jewellery.

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Memorials

Create a lasting place of remembrance. Somewhere to return to, reflect and remember.

What families say about us

Rated 4.9 / 5 based on 88 reviews.

Rated 5 / 5

Very grateful for the expertise that Henry Paul provided for our Aunt’s funeral. As a family without the guidance of Brian and his team, we would have felt overwhelmed. With their support our Aunt’s life was commemorated and celebrated, as they listened to our hopes and delivered a funeral to remember. Thank you Henry Paul.

Caroline O'Mahoney, 31 October 2026

Rated 5 / 5

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I honestly cannot thank Brian at Henry Paul Funeral Directors (Dignity) enough for everything he has done for Dad and for us.

I first spoke to Brian about four years ago, when we thought we were going to lose Dad. Dad then made a miraculous recovery, but I never forgot that conversation. I promised myself that when the time did come, Brian would be the person I called, and I’m so glad I did.

From the moment Dad was close to passing away in Malta, Brian was there to help me. That support carried on through bringing Dad home, arranging his funeral and even after his burial. The help and reassurance I received throughout was incredible.

Arranging Dad’s repatriation was no easy task, but it felt so much easier with Brian at the helm. He worked with all the different people and organisations involved, both in Malta and here, and somehow brought it all together. When you’re grieving and trying to get everything right for your dad, having someone you trust taking that weight off your shoulders means everything.

Robin, our celebrant, was incredible too. He worked with us to bring Dad’s story and his service to life, making it personal to Dad and to us. He also helped coordinate everything with the City of London Cemetery, where Dad was laid to rest with his mum and sister.

It’s hard to put into a review just how much this has meant to me. I wanted to bring my dad home and give him the send-off he deserved, and Brian helped me do that.

Thank you, Brian and Robin, for your kindness, care and everything you did for our family. I shan’t ever forget it.

Hana x

Hana Hamilton, 28 October 2026

Rated 5 / 5

Henry Paul provided exceptional care at the recent funeral of my late mother.

Jenny Grace, 19 October 2026

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Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.