Urns and caskets
Choose from a variety of materials and styles designed for burial, scattering or keeping their ashes.
Memorials in Dundee
A memorial gives you somewhere to visit and remember. Our funeral directors in Dundee can help you choose one, whether or not they arranged the funeral.
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Choosing a memorial
Headstones, plaques, benches and books of remembrance all serve the same purpose in different ways. There is no hurry to decide, and we can talk you through what is possible at the cemeteries and crematoria near Dundee.
Many ways to remember them
An item to treasure, a place to reflect, or a vessel to hold their ashes – honour their life in a way that feels right.
Looking after a memorial
Stone and lettering weather over time. We can arrange cleaning, repairs and additional inscriptions when a memorial needs them.
A lasting place of rest and remembrance
Give them a peaceful resting place within our own memorial grounds or cemeteries, where loved ones can reflect within beautiful, natural surroundings.
Vaults
Honour them alongside loved ones, in one of our cemeteries or gardens of remembrance. Available in specific locations.
Memorial gardens
Create a special space to visit and remember them. Including private and communal gardens, plaques, benches and more.
Mausoleums
Pay tribute with a private, permanent resting place above ground. Available in specific locations.
How we can help
Choosing the right memorial can depend on things like materials, personal preferences or what's allowed by the local cemetery. We're here to talk it through and help you decide.
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Choosing a memorial that the cemetery or crematorium permits
Cemeteries and other sites often have rules about the size, materials and finishes allowed. We'll guide you through any approvals, so there are no surprises.
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Wording and lettering for the inscription
We can help you choose the details, like the inscription, lettering style and design, so everything feels personal and works together.
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Adding an inscription to an existing memorial
Our memorial specialists are always here to guide you and answer your questions. You decide at your own speed, there's no rush.
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Memorial costs
The cost of a memorial varies depending on what you choose – the type, materials, location, and how much personalisation you'd like can affect the price. We'll always be upfront about costs, so you know what to expect.
Talk to someone in Dundee
Our local team can talk you through the options and what everything costs, with no obligation.
What families say about us
Rated 4.9 / 5 based on 29 reviews.
Rated 5 / 5
Excellent service, couldn't find fault with anything . Very professional with all items dealt with in a very compassionate way. Many thanks to Edna and team x
Crawford muir, 20 September 2026
Rated 5 / 5
A caring sensitive service carried out professionally by all staff encountered. Everything taken care of to enable family to relax knowing in very capable hands.
Thoroughly recommend. Many thanks.
Bill Varney, 15 June 2026
Rated 5 / 5
Can’t express enough how thankful the family are for J & J Gray’s services to help us craft the best possible service. No small detail was missed, right down to the tie colours - they took the stress out of a stressful situation. We’d like to thank Edna, Brian, and all the staff for doing such an incredible job from the very start right to the end.
I would recommend for anyone who has lost a loved one to go to J & J Gray’s for a compassionate service.
Stephen Connelly, 19 May 2026
FAQs
We're here to answer all your questions. If anything isn't clear, please ask us.
Advice and guidance
Guides to choosing a memorial and what to consider.
Types of memorials
The full range of memorials, from classic stone to personal keepsakes – how to choose one that suits the person, and what to do if there is no grave.
Memorial FAQs
Straight answers on memorials – what they are for, the types families choose, the regulations sites set, materials and upkeep, and personalising one.
Traditional memorial stones and accompaniments
Traditional stone memorials – headstones, grave markers, statues and accompaniments – how long before one can be fitted, and adding to it later.
Headstones
Choosing a headstone: materials, shapes, finishes and inscriptions, the cemetery rules that apply, and how long you must wait before one can be fixed.
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Talk to your local branch to get a quote
Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.