Attended funerals in Gravesend

An attended funeral is a full funeral service with family and friends there. Our funeral directors in Gravesend will help you arrange it, and be with you at every stage.

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T S Horlock & Son Funeral Directors, Northfleet

We are next to St Botolphs Church and Community Centre.

What an attended funeral costs in Gravesend

This is what an attended funeral costs at our Gravesend funeral director, including the fees we estimate you will pay to other organisations.

Attended funeral

Our services
£2,795
  • A Basic Coffin, or choose any other and pay only the difference
  • A traditional hearse
  • Care in our first class facilities
Estimated third-party costs
£1,184
  • Crematoria fees
  • A celebrant or minister to lead the ceremony
Estimated total
£3,979

The final price depends on the choices you make. Your funeral director will talk you through all of them.

Add a personal touch

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Coffins and caskets

Choose from a range of materials and designs – simple and understated through to ornate or colourful.

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Urns and keepsakes

Keep them close with an urn, scatter tube, garden memorial or piece of memorial jewellery.

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Memorials

Create a lasting place of remembrance. Somewhere to return to, reflect and remember.

What families say about us

Rated 4.93 / 5 based on 58 reviews.

Rated 5/5

Couldn't ask for a better funeral service. Ross, Matthew and the team were very helpful and compassionate and made organising the funeral for my aunt that little bit easier despite it having to be arranged over a distance via phone calls and emails as I'm based in Cornwall. The day of the funeral went off beautifully, and was a lovely final send off my dear Aunt. Thank you once again. Highly recommended.

neil levy, 17 February 2026

Rated 5/5

Very professional and very friendly and understanding

Martin Whitaker, 15 February 2026

Rated 5/5

We chose T S Horlocks to arrange our mums funeral after using them many years ago for our dad. The service was as amazing now as it was then.

The arrangements were made by Ross and he was a pleasure to work with. He was kind and gave us time to discuss decision's amongst ourselves. There was no pressure to add anything we did not want. We trusted him to choose our celebrant and he chose Maria Williams. She was wonderful and we was so happy with the eulogy she gave for mum.

Matthew was in contact a couple of times before the service to ask if we were ok and to double check the arrangements were all correct. On the day he and his team carried out their duties with dignity, compassion and respect for us and our mum. We was also given a memory box with our order of service, forget me not seeds, our flower cards and space to add our own items and mums photo in a frame. It was a lovely surprise and will be treasured.

Thank you to all the team for making a difficult time that bit easier for us

Debra Glanfield, 18 January 2026

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Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.