Urns and caskets
Choose from a variety of materials and styles designed for burial, scattering or keeping their ashes.
Memorials in Dereham
A memorial gives you somewhere to visit and remember. Our funeral directors in Dereham can help you choose one, whether or not they arranged the funeral.
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Choosing a memorial
Headstones, plaques, benches and books of remembrance all serve the same purpose in different ways. There is no hurry to decide, and we can talk you through what is possible at the cemeteries and crematoria near Dereham.
Many ways to remember them
An item to treasure, a place to reflect, or a vessel to hold their ashes – honour their life in a way that feels right.
Looking after a memorial
Stone and lettering weather over time. We can arrange cleaning, repairs and additional inscriptions when a memorial needs them.
A lasting place of rest and remembrance
Give them a peaceful resting place within our own memorial grounds or cemeteries, where loved ones can reflect within beautiful, natural surroundings.
Vaults
Honour them alongside loved ones, in one of our cemeteries or gardens of remembrance. Available in specific locations.
Memorial gardens
Create a special space to visit and remember them. Including private and communal gardens, plaques, benches and more.
Mausoleums
Pay tribute with a private, permanent resting place above ground. Available in specific locations.
How we can help
Choosing the right memorial can depend on things like materials, personal preferences or what's allowed by the local cemetery. We're here to talk it through and help you decide.
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Local rules and approvals
Cemeteries and other sites often have rules about the size, materials and finishes allowed. We'll guide you through any approvals, so there are no surprises.
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Wording, lettering and design
We can help you choose the details, like the inscription, lettering style and design, so everything feels personal and works together.
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Take the time you need
Our memorial specialists are always here to guide you and answer your questions. You decide at your own speed, there's no rush.
Memorial costs
The cost of a memorial varies depending on what you choose – the type, materials, location, and how much personalisation you'd like can affect the price. We'll always be upfront about costs, so you know what to expect.
Talk to someone in Dereham
Our local team can talk you through the options and what everything costs, with no obligation.
What families say about us
Rated 5 / 5 based on 30 reviews.
Rated 5/5
The staff, and service provided was top class, and everything came together brilliantly. Friendly, and professional from start to finish, and I would recommend Gordon and Barber most highly.
Leon Thorogate, 1 September 2026
Rated 5/5
Cannot fault the service we received from Aletia and the team in Dereham. We were all treated with care and compassion throughout the whole process. Aletia went out of her way to assist my father and kept the whole family up-dated with progress on various aspects of the funeral planning.
On the day of the funeral everything ran smoothly with an air of peace and calm throughout. Martin and Michael were so kind, showing such respect to both the deceased and the family. Michael made sure we felt no pressure to be moving along after the service (unlike my experience at some funerals) and dealt with flower delivery to the wake.
I would highly recommend this funeral directors for their kindness, respect and efficiency.
mandy mcintosh, 17 August 2026
Rated 5/5
Aletia was particularly kind empathetic and supportive, gently guiding us through the whole process of planning the funeral, she organised everything nothing was too much trouble. She stayed in touch and the whole team on the day was faultless it went better than we had hoped, so grateful for their help.
Sam Eke, 20 July 2026
FAQs
We're here to answer all your questions. If anything isn't clear, please ask us.
Advice and guidance
Guides to choosing a memorial and what to consider.
Types of memorials
The full range of memorials, from classic stone to personal keepsakes – how to choose one that suits the person, and what to do if there is no grave.
Memorial FAQs
Straight answers on memorials – what they are for, the types families choose, the regulations sites set, materials and upkeep, and personalising one.
Traditional memorial stones and accompaniments
Traditional stone memorials – headstones, grave markers, statues and accompaniments – how long before one can be fitted, and adding to it later.
Headstones
Choosing a headstone: materials, shapes, finishes and inscriptions, the cemetery rules that apply, and how long you must wait before one can be fixed.
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Talk to your local branch to get a quote
Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.