Urns and caskets
Choose from a variety of materials and styles designed for burial, scattering or keeping their ashes.
Memorials in South Croydon
A memorial gives you somewhere to visit and remember. Our funeral directors in South Croydon can help you choose one, whether or not they arranged the funeral.
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Choosing a memorial
Headstones, plaques, benches and books of remembrance all serve the same purpose in different ways. There is no hurry to decide, and we can talk you through what is possible at the cemeteries and crematoria near South Croydon.
Many ways to remember them
An item to treasure, a place to reflect, or a vessel to hold their ashes – honour their life in a way that feels right.
Looking after a memorial
Stone and lettering weather over time. We can arrange cleaning, repairs and additional inscriptions when a memorial needs them.
A lasting place of rest and remembrance
Give them a peaceful resting place within our own memorial grounds or cemeteries, where loved ones can reflect within beautiful, natural surroundings.
Vaults
Honour them alongside loved ones, in one of our cemeteries or gardens of remembrance. Available in specific locations.
Memorial gardens
Create a special space to visit and remember them. Including private and communal gardens, plaques, benches and more.
Mausoleums
Pay tribute with a private, permanent resting place above ground. Available in specific locations.
How we can help
Choosing the right memorial can depend on things like materials, personal preferences or what's allowed by the local cemetery. We're here to talk it through and help you decide.
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Choosing a memorial that the cemetery or crematorium permits
Cemeteries and other sites often have rules about the size, materials and finishes allowed. We'll guide you through any approvals, so there are no surprises.
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Wording and lettering for the inscription
We can help you choose the details, like the inscription, lettering style and design, so everything feels personal and works together.
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Adding an inscription to an existing memorial
Our memorial specialists are always here to guide you and answer your questions. You decide at your own speed, there's no rush.
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Memorial costs
The cost of a memorial varies depending on what you choose – the type, materials, location, and how much personalisation you'd like can affect the price. We'll always be upfront about costs, so you know what to expect.
Talk to someone in South Croydon
Our local team can talk you through the options and what everything costs, with no obligation.
What families say about us
Rated 4.7 / 5 based on 31 reviews.
Rated 3 / 5
The actual funeral on the 28th August 2026 was well organised but unfortunately the visits to Ebbutts Sanderstead were too rushed as Luke was always under pressure and understaffed. Was overcharged on original quote for Order of Service by £42.13 plus £16 for Minister's fee which was covered by Dignity's pre paid plan and our Minister made no charge whatsoever for his services.
Unfortunately I am unable to make a recommendation for Ebbutts of Sanderstead
Yvonne Taylor
Yvonne Taylor, 2 September 2026
Rated 5 / 5
We used Ebbutts 3 years ago for my mother's funeral, which was a little complicated but was handled very well, so I had no qualms about using them again and would definitely recommend. Everyone we spoke to, particularly Luke and Gill, was patient and caring and the Celebrant they recommended (Sally Farrell) was excellent. Always available for queries or returned calls very quickly. Really glad we went with them
David Mussett, 30 August 2026
Rated 1 / 5
We were extremely disappointed with the service we received. The flowers we had agreed on were never ordered, and we only discovered this when we called to check. The lady who handled our planning meeting went off sick, and it appears none of the details were passed on.
At no point did anyone from their team chase us for information (photos, music, order of service etc..). We had to call repeatedly and organise key items ourselves. There was clearly absolutely no ownership taken on their side.
We also learned very late in the process that the team had incorrectly assumed we would be travelling from the funeral directors rather than from our home. We had agreed collection from home in the initial meeting. That would have been an absolute disaster if we had not checked with them!
When we called to clarify arrangements, the Director who was meant to lead the ceremony seemed uninterested and quite abrupt. He then went off sick the day before the funeral, and the stand‑in — who had never led a funeral before — had to step in. She did a good job under the circumstances, but the situation should never have arisen.
It is now a month later, and despite several calls to Ebbutts, we still have no ashes and no bill for the agreed extras. Each time we call, we speak to someone different, and no one seems to have a full picture of what is happening. I wouldn't be surprised if my late father ashes have gone missing or never properly dealt with.
Overall, the experience has was disorganised and a shambles.
DC GenerationX, 22 July 2026
FAQs
We're here to answer all your questions. If anything isn't clear, please ask us.
Advice and guidance
Guides to choosing a memorial and what to consider.
Types of memorials
The full range of memorials, from classic stone to personal keepsakes – how to choose one that suits the person, and what to do if there is no grave.
Memorial FAQs
Straight answers on memorials – what they are for, the types families choose, the regulations sites set, materials and upkeep, and personalising one.
Traditional memorial stones and accompaniments
Traditional stone memorials – headstones, grave markers, statues and accompaniments – how long before one can be fitted, and adding to it later.
Headstones
Choosing a headstone: materials, shapes, finishes and inscriptions, the cemetery rules that apply, and how long you must wait before one can be fixed.
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Talk to your local branch to get a quote
Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.