R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors, Hailsham
About our Hailsham funeral home
Helping to make a difficult time a little easier, our caring professionals are available to ensure you can remember your loved one in the way you want. You will be treated with compassion and respect at all times, as we provide advice and help you to make the decisions that will shape the funeral.
As part of the National Association of Funeral Directors (NAFD), we abide by a strict code of practice. You can rest assured that your loved one will be cared for with absolute integrity and that their send off will run smoothly and according to your wishes.
You can find our funeral home on Station Road, at the junction with South Road, and our location close to the centre of town makes us accessible to the whole of Hailsham. We are also able to serve families from our neighbouring communities in the Wealden district, such as Heathfield, Polegate and Uckfield.
Our funeral directors has been a part of East Sussex since 1809, so you can rest assured that you and your loved one will be in safe and experienced hands.
There will be somebody ready to listen, 24 hours. To arrange a funeral,
What we offer
- Advice and guidance at every step, including registering the death
- Arrangements that are tailored to meet your family's needs
- Local expertise and knowledge
- Cremation or burial at any local crematorium or burial site
- Funeral services of all faiths and cultures
- Viewing of the deceased in the chapel of rest
- Hearses, funeral vehicles and bespoke transport options
- Memorials and tributes
- Prepaid funeral plans
Funeral Services with distinction
Many Dignity funeral directors have been part of the local community for generations and it is a privilege to serve those who live beside us. Our rich and lengthy heritage ensures we can deliver our service with local knowledge and unparalleled expertise.
Our funeral services
If you’re looking for a traditional or contemporary funeral with a service, you should consider our Attended Funeral. If you want us to arrange a simple cremation without mourners present, our Unattended Funeral may better suit your needs.
View our Standardised Price List and Additional Options Price List.
The Unattended FuneralWe will help you arrange a simple funeral consisting of a direct cremation without mourners present.Our Unattended Funeral allows friends and family to commemorate your loved one in their own way. Our expert funeral directors will provide all necessary care, while offering advice and support every step of the way. A cremation will then be carried out without mourners present, overseen by one of our qualified attendants.Find out more
The Unattended FuneralWe will help you arrange a simple funeral consisting of a direct cremation without mourners present.From£995(Includes cost of cremation).(Includes cost of cremation).Our Unattended Funeral allows friends and family to commemorate your loved one in their own way. Our expert funeral directors will provide all necessary care, while offering advice and support every step of the way. A cremation will then be carried out without mourners present, overseen by one of our qualified attendants.
The Attended FuneralA fully personalised funeral arranged and conducted by our expert teams in accordance with your exact wishes.Our expert team will take care of your loved one with the utmost dignity and respect, while we help arrange a personalised funeral with any additional services you wish.Find out more
The Attended FuneralA fully personalised funeral arranged and conducted by our expert teams in accordance with your exact wishes.From£1,995plus £1,068 estimated third party costs for cost of cremation, doctor's fees and attendance of a celebrant or minister.plus £1,068 estimated third party costs for cost of cremation, doctor's fees and attendance of a celebrant or minister.
Where to find us
Directions and Parking
South Road Car Park is right next to our funeral home and is free of charge.
Funeral Home Opening Times
|Day of the Week||Hours|
|Monday||09:00 - 17:00|
|Tuesday||09:00 - 17:00|
|Wednesday||09:00 - 17:00|
|Thursday||09:00 - 17:00|
|Friday||09:00 - 17:00|
24 Hour Availability
Supporting you along the way
What to do when someone diesIt’s perfectly normal to be unsure of what you need to do following the death of a loved one. These step-by-step guides will carefully explain everything you need to when someone dies, helping you through each stage of the process.Find out more
Planning a funeralOur guides on planning a funeral will ensure your loved one's send off is a personal and unique celebration of their life. We will explain how our Funeral Directors will help you plan a funeral service and support you at every stage.Find out more
The day of the funeralThis guide will explain what happens at a funeral; including the funeral procession, funeral service, committal service and the wake. We will be here to help you through every step of the journey.Find out more
Frequently asked questions
When someone dies, the first steps will depend on how and where the person passed away. Our step-by-step guides will walk you through the practical steps. For additional support and personal advice, please get in touch with us.
You don't have to make an appointment at our funeral homes. However, doing so will ensure that someone can be available to cater to your needs. When arranging a funeral, our Funeral Directors are happy to visit you in your own home, if required.
Third party funeral costs are additional charges which we will manage for you and attach to your single invoice. Get in touch with us to confirm costs and plan a funeral to fit your budget.
If you choose to arrange the funeral with us, you will be given the option of a complimentary Funeral Notice. We will set it up for you using the details discussed during the arrangements. All we need is an email address.
Dignity Funeral Plans let you pay for your funeral in advance and at today's price. It's a way of taking control of the unexpected, setting out the arrangements and limiting the costs by paying for the services included in the funeral plan upfront.
Reviews of our services
All the staff that we dealt with were so very helpful and understanding we couldn't have asked for more.
Various thoughts were offered to ensure the day progressed well.
I wish to thank the staff for there care and consideration.
All questions answered professionally
Made our beautiful mums journey go with out a hitch
I would highly recommend the Hailsham branch
Thanks to Shirley and her Team
Our only disappointment was that we were not able to choose a different coffin without paying another £1500 for the package we had, bearing in mind with COVID restrictions we had no choice.
However Butlers were excellent perhaps Dignity need to rethink this in light of what is happening with the pandemic.
The Childs Family
The burden of preparation and the pressure was totally eliminated. Quite a relief at this time!
Thankyou is never enough, but it is heartfelt.
Anne & Winston Mcnamee