
Coffins and urns
Choose from a range of materials and designs – simple and understated through to ornate or colourful.

We've been caring for the people of Hailsham since 1809. At R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors we know that every detail matters.
From handling the paperwork to advising on the little touches that make the day feel right, we’re here to support you.
With clear pricing and options to fit your needs and budget, we will guide you through every decision with care and compassion, at a pace that feels right for you.
If you are weighing up the options, we can explain the difference between an attended funeral in Hailsham and an unattended funeral in Hailsham. There are more of our funeral directors in East Sussex nearby.
Setting the highest standards for care, service and facilities
Working with charities and carers to improve support
Guiding families with local sensitivity and understanding
We are opposite the on-foot entrance for South Road Car Park.
These are estimated costs for a cremation. For a burial, please call us and we'll explain the costs.
Total price: £4,211
Total price: £1,745
Your local funeral director will be happy to talk through the options and help you understand costs. You can also view our Standardised price list, Additional options price list and Crematoria prices

Choose from a range of materials and designs – simple and understated through to ornate or colourful.

Whether you prefer a simple bouquet, wreath, spray or coffin display we are here to help you with your decision

From a printed order of service to bookmarks and memorial cards, we can help you create stationery that reflects the occasion.
At our branch we can offer the following facilities
Wash and dress
Access to facilities for ritual washing and dressing, allowing families to care for the person who has died in line with their faith and traditions, with support from our experienced team.
Multi-faith chapel of rest
Our Chapel of Rest provides a peaceful space where you can spend time with the person who has died and say goodbye in your own way, with compassionate support from our team if needed.
A choice of transport
We offer a choice of traditional and bespoke funeral transport, allowing families to personalise the funeral and celebrate their loved one in a way that feels right for them.
A truly local service
As part of the local community, we have trusted connections with local florists, celebrants, venues and places of worship. This local knowledge helps us make arrangements smoothly, while creating a funeral that reflects the life of the person who has died.
Rated 4.88 / 5 based on 48 reviews.
Everyone we had contact with here were genuinely compassionate, understanding and incredibly patient with myself and my siblings after mum passing away just before Christmas. We had some concerns with our experience at another funeral directors very local to Butlers which lead us to instigate conversations with Butlers. The moment we engaged with everyone at Butlers we instantly felt at ease, there was no pressure and they were extremely professional with a lovely touch of friendly empathy. A huge thank you to everyone at R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors in Hailsham. We could not have asked for a better service to help us say our final goodbye to our beautiful mum.
Clive Parsons, 14 January 2026
Thank you to Dawn and the team at R Butlers. They ensured everything was planned to my requirements, kept me informed during the arrangements, and prompted me ahead of time whenever I needed to action something. The day went faultlessly and I was confident the team would conduct their roles perfectly, allowing me to concentrate fully on the service.
Ben Vince, 15 December 2025
Every small detail was perfect. They kept me informed, were kind and sympathetic and just wonderful. I have to recommend highly.
Roger Kirby, 7 September 2025
