Unattended funerals in Hailsham

An unattended funeral is a simple cremation with nobody present. Our funeral director in Hailsham takes care of everything and returns the ashes to you.

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R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors, Hailsham

We are opposite the on-foot entrance for South Road Car Park.

What an unattended funeral costs in Hailsham

One price, with nothing else to pay. This is what an unattended funeral costs at our Hailsham funeral director.

Unattended funeral

Our services
£1,745
  • A simple, Unattended Funeral coffin, or choose any other and pay only the difference
  • Care in our first class facilities
  • A cremation without a ceremony or mourners present
Total
£1,745

Everything needed for the cremation is included in this price.

Add a personal touch

A light wooden coffin with brass handles inside a hearse, topped with a pink and purple floral spray.

Coffins and caskets

Choose from a range of materials and designs – simple and understated through to ornate or colourful.

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Urns and keepsakes

Keep them close with an urn, scatter tube, garden memorial or piece of memorial jewellery.

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Memorials

Create a lasting place of remembrance. Somewhere to return to, reflect and remember.

What an unattended funeral includes

Everything below is included in the price.

  • Included:Collecting and caring for the person who has died
  • Included:A simple coffin
  • Included:The cremation fee and all necessary paperwork
  • Included:Returning the ashes to you, or scattering them at the crematorium

Talk to someone in Hailsham

Our local team can talk you through the options and what everything costs, with no obligation.

What families say about us

Rated 4.8 / 5 based on 52 reviews.

Rated 5 / 5

My mother passed about 10 years ago followed by my father recently. Butlers & Sons namely Carol & Dawn and the team provided an excellent and caring service. Nothing was too much trouble and it was so reassuring to have someone there to help with all that needed to be done and to give both my parents the send off they deserved.

David Smith, 23 June 2026

Rated 5 / 5

Even though we had a funeral plan. Using Butler and Son's funeral services was excellent. My son's and I felt very relaxed with Carol for the initial meeting and giving us all the information. Everyone went above and beyond making our sad and stressful few weeks very calm and peaceful. So thank you all for everything you all did for us and our departed loved one ❤️

Teresa Lunn, 11 June 2026

Rated 5 / 5

Obviously not a great experience when it's someone's funeral to organise but, Carol and the team provided a brilliant service and were fantastic with my dad who had lost his wife (my mum). Nothing was too much for them to do for us and their empathy was extremely comforting. Thank you from me and my entire family.

P D, 12 April 2026

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Helpful organisations

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Grief after bereavement

Bereavement and grief affect people in different ways. There's no right or wrong way to feel. The NHS website has advice and places to go for support.

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Help with funeral costs

If you get certain benefits you may be eligible for the Funeral Expenses Payment. You can find out more, check your eligibility, and apply on the GOV.UK website.

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Report the death

There are government organisations that need to know when someone dies. Tell Us Once is a service that lets you report the death to most of them in one go.

Advice and guidance

Practical guides on unattended funerals, direct cremation and what to do next.

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Talk to your local branch to get a quote

Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.