Attended funerals in Hailsham

An attended funeral is a full funeral service with family and friends there. Our funeral directors in Hailsham will help you arrange it, and be with you at every stage.

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R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors, Hailsham

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What an attended funeral costs in Hailsham

This is what an attended funeral costs at our Hailsham funeral director, including the fees we estimate you will pay to other organisations.

Attended funeral

Our services
£3,195
  • A Basic Coffin, or choose any other and pay only the difference
  • A traditional hearse
  • Care in our first class facilities
Estimated third-party costs
£1,016
  • Crematoria fees
  • A celebrant or minister to lead the ceremony
Estimated total
£4,211

The final price depends on the choices you make. Your funeral director will talk you through all of them.

Add a personal touch

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Coffins and caskets

Choose from a range of materials and designs – simple and understated through to ornate or colourful.

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Urns and keepsakes

Keep them close with an urn, scatter tube, garden memorial or piece of memorial jewellery.

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Memorials

Create a lasting place of remembrance. Somewhere to return to, reflect and remember.

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What families say about us

Rated 4.88 / 5 based on 48 reviews.

Rated 5/5

Everyone we had contact with here were genuinely compassionate, understanding and incredibly patient with myself and my siblings after mum passing away just before Christmas. We had some concerns with our experience at another funeral directors very local to Butlers which lead us to instigate conversations with Butlers. The moment we engaged with everyone at Butlers we instantly felt at ease, there was no pressure and they were extremely professional with a lovely touch of friendly empathy. A huge thank you to everyone at R Butler & Sons Funeral Directors in Hailsham. We could not have asked for a better service to help us say our final goodbye to our beautiful mum.

Clive Parsons, 14 January 2026

Rated 5/5

Thank you to Dawn and the team at R Butlers. They ensured everything was planned to my requirements, kept me informed during the arrangements, and prompted me ahead of time whenever I needed to action something. The day went faultlessly and I was confident the team would conduct their roles perfectly, allowing me to concentrate fully on the service.

Ben Vince, 15 December 2025

Rated 5/5

Every small detail was perfect. They kept me informed, were kind and sympathetic and just wonderful. I have to recommend highly.

Roger Kirby, 7 September 2025

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Help with funeral costs

If you get certain benefits you may be eligible for the Funeral Expenses Payment. You can find out more, check your eligibility, and apply on the GOV.UK website.

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Talk to your local branch to get a quote

Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.