Attended funerals in Eltham

An attended funeral is a full funeral service with family and friends there. Our funeral directors in Eltham will help you arrange it, and be with you at every stage.

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Francis Chappell & Sons Funeral Directors, Eltham

We are located at the bottom of the High Street opposite St. John the Baptist Church.

  • 72 High Street, Eltham, London, SE9 1BT

    • Office opening hours:

      Monday – Friday, 9am – 5pm
    • Saturday, By appointment only
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What an attended funeral costs in Eltham

This is what an attended funeral costs at our Eltham funeral director, including the fees we estimate you will pay to other organisations.

Attended funeral

Our services
£3,595
  • A Basic Coffin, or choose any other and pay only the difference
  • A traditional hearse
  • Care in our first class facilities
Estimated third-party costs
£1,188
  • Crematoria fees
  • A celebrant or minister to lead the ceremony
Estimated total
£4,783

The final price depends on the choices you make. Your funeral director will talk you through all of them.

Add a personal touch

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Coffins and caskets

Choose from a range of materials and designs – simple and understated through to ornate or colourful.

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Urns and keepsakes

Keep them close with an urn, scatter tube, garden memorial or piece of memorial jewellery.

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Memorials

Create a lasting place of remembrance. Somewhere to return to, reflect and remember.

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What families say about us

Rated 4.8 / 5 based on 34 reviews.

Rated 5 / 5

We met Rebecca at a very low point for us she immediately put us at ease and explained clearly the prices, processes and legal side to death. She was helpful and remained constant throughout this difficult process always on call with a cheery but respectful demeanour. Our heartfelt thanks go out to her.

On the day of the funeral we were met with kindness and compassion by all involved with this final journey.

Thank you all so much

Gill and Sandra.

Gill Cockrell, 29 September 2026

Rated 5 / 5

Francis Chappell & Sons in Eltham were absolutely fantastic throughout the whole process of arranging my dad Ronnie’s funeral.

From our very first contact, Rebecca and the team treated us with genuine kindness, compassion and professionalism. Nothing was ever too much trouble, and they guided us through every stage with patience and understanding at what was an incredibly difficult time for our family.

Everything was handled beautifully and with great dignity, which gave us complete confidence that Dad was being properly cared for. Their support made a very painful experience that little bit easier, and we will always be extremely grateful.

I cannot recommend them highly enough

Darren Jones, 1 September 2026

Rated 5 / 5

Very courteous and understanding.

Lee Nunn, 19 April 2026

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Talk to your local branch to get a quote

Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.