Attended funerals in Botley

An attended funeral is a full funeral service with family and friends there. Our funeral directors in Botley will help you arrange it, and be with you at every stage.

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Oliver & James Funeral Directors, Botley

What an attended funeral costs in Botley

This is what an attended funeral costs at our Botley funeral director, including the fees we estimate you will pay to other organisations.

Attended funeral

Our services
£2,695
  • A Basic Coffin, or choose any other and pay only the difference
  • A traditional hearse
  • Care in our first class facilities
Estimated third-party costs
£1,094
  • Crematoria fees
  • A celebrant or minister to lead the ceremony
Estimated total
£3,789

The final price depends on the choices you make. Your funeral director will talk you through all of them.

Add a personal touch

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Coffins and caskets

Choose from a range of materials and designs – simple and understated through to ornate or colourful.

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Urns and keepsakes

Keep them close with an urn, scatter tube, garden memorial or piece of memorial jewellery.

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Memorials

Create a lasting place of remembrance. Somewhere to return to, reflect and remember.

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What families say about us

Rated 4.9 / 5 based on 34 reviews.

Rated 5 / 5

Excellent service, very compassionate and professional staff who were also very friendly and ensured everything was sorted in a calm and unhurried manner. Thank you.

Ian Grant, 17 October 2026

Rated 5 / 5

Erica and the team at Oliver & James in Botley delivered an exceptional service for both my mum and my dad.

My Mum was cremated when the branch was just taken over by Oliver & James. The process was as easy as it could be. More recently, we chose Oliver & James again when my dad sadly passed. No matter who I spoke to, every member of staff was patient and kind towards me and my family, no matter how many questions we had. My dad's service was more complicated in comparison to my mum's, as my dad wished to be buried at our local church, but Erica handled everything. Even with all of the complexities, Erica took care of everything.

I plan to continue using the services of Oliver and James for the temporary grave marker and the final headstone when that time comes.

Chloe Smith, 23 September 2026

Rated 5 / 5

We had an excellent experience with Oliver & James in Botley. The service we received from Erica was friendly, efficient and very helpful. At a very challenging time of arranging my father’s funeral she sensitively helped us organise all the fine details to ensure the service was exactly as we wanted it to be. Thank you Erica. We would highly recommend your services.

Joe Francis, 16 September 2026

FAQs

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Helpful organisations

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Help with funeral costs

If you get certain benefits you may be eligible for the Funeral Expenses Payment. You can find out more, check your eligibility, and apply on the GOV.UK website.

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Report the death

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Talk to your local branch to get a quote

Your local funeral director can talk through our costs and any personal touches you want to include. Let us know what you're thinking and we'll work to your budget.