This guide explains what happens at a Jewish funeral:
Jews value life above almost anything else. They believe that holiness can be reached from following the laws and commandments in the Torah. Many Jewish people believe that they are judged by God once they die, with those who led perfect lives being let into the World to Come.
A Jewish funeral is conducted by a Rabbi and usually takes place within one day following the date of death, though there is an allowance to delay the burial for mourners to travel and for appropriate arrangements to be made.
The funeral service is traditionally held in a Synagogue or funeral home and no public viewing of the body is allowed. The deceased is washed, but not embalmed, and placed in a simple wooden coffin.
Following the service, more prayers are read at the cemetery and family members participate in placing dirt on the coffin before it is buried. Flowers are not appropriate for most Jewish funerals, however, to a charity or Jewish organisation is appreciated.
For Orthodox Jews, cremation is not prohibited, however, cremation is becoming increasingly popular for Reform Jews.
After a Jewish funeral takes place, the immediate family observes seven days of mourning, called Shiva (Hebrew for seven). During this period, the family remains at home in a ‘Shiva house’, following traditional mourning practices. Friends and extended family are invited to visit the Shiva house to pay their respects and support the bereaved.
Sources: Jewish Federations, Reform Judaism and Shiva.com
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